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LO STEREOTIPO DA ELIMINARE

Who reads my blog regularly knows, one of the things that makes me most angry is the discrimination against women. The reasons why I feel touched by this phenomenon are different, I'll summarize:

1 - live with women as many men (my companion, my cousins, My mother, my grandmothers and great-grandfather, maybe one day I will have one or more daughters, my mother-in-law, friends, etc..), then good for women wanting to know me personally and they are more expensive (as I love men who populate my life) I feel myself touched by the injustices that often suffer;

2 - the debasement of the female often coincides with the degradation of a male, so it's something that also affects humans ;

3 - I believe in because of the struggle of feminists and I believe this society, especially but not only Italian, discriminates against the female world;

4 - I consider it a political issue and società, perchè io parlo prevalentemente di donne ma implicitamente è come se parlassi di bambini o animali o razzismo o discriminazione omosessuale eccetera, perchè io credo nel diritto alla vita e nel diritto al rispetto per qualsiasi essere umano ed essere vivente in generale.

Fatta questa doverosa premessa per chiarire il mio punto di vista riguardo il tema che spesso affronto fra queste pagine web, vado al punto che vorrei sviscerare in questo post.

Molto spesso noi pensiamo alla donna come una categoria a sè e non come un essere umano. Io penso che prevalentemente sia una cosa continuamente indotta dalla nostra società. Apro due parentesi: prima perentesi, questo post non vuole speak in terms of why and how we are so placed on women today, because the discussion would be long and still no definite answers if they manage to have, it should be assumed much; second period, I would like the Italian situation, for two reasons. The first choice is that this blog deals with national issues and the second reason is that it would be too complex to talk about situations in the world that most do not really know.
So now I bring you my reflections on the fact that our society continues for years to slip into stereotypes head wrong way and that, in my opinion, affect a lot about what we are and how we behave.

If television is said to have become lo specchio della società, anche internet secondo me non scherza e più crescera il fenomeno internet in Italia più la società italiana assomiglierà ai contenuti di internet, perchè in fondo sia internet che la televisione la facciamo noi, la fanno delle persone come noi. Utilizzerò internet per farvi degli esempi su cose che ho notato e che penso c'entrino col discorso.

Quando noi pensiamo alla parola "RICERCA" in un lampo la prima cosa che ci viene in mente è un microscopio, ora scrivete su Google la parola "ricerca" e fate la ricerca sulle immagini, come noterete tra le prime immagini vedrete un microscopio in diverse fotografie.
Capito cosa volevo dire quando dicevo che internet is the mirror of society?

Well, this line of my speech I did a little research and I noticed that the female image is often exactly the same, in our heads, to the stereotypes that we have taught for hundreds of years, both the predecessor companies that today's society.
shows you what I say with some examples.

For one thing the human being (and then the male and female of our species) is often called "man" in our language. That alone is discriminatory towards women because it is as if the term cancels out and does not consider existence.
we are human beings not men, this is the adjective we use to define our species.

But let us return to the example of the word "research" that you did before.
When we think of the words: woman, female, feminine and feminist. What comes to mind? Very often we head in the wrong stereotypes that are often equally inculcated by our ignorance on the subject and from a society that was patriarchal and male lunghissmo time.
Try to make as Google (careful here, all the examples that I now do not want to imply that all we think about certain images when we think of an adjective or a category, then some examples are pretty extreme, I just want to show how many men and many women often have similar figures in his head when they think about certain words and then I would explain to do a ' image analysis that we harass them in your head all day concepts of any kind). Writing words on Google images: woman, female, feminine and feminist. Among the first pictures of these stand out in the order:

Diverse foto hanno questo senso (e ho scelto le meno volgari). La donna è spesso rappresentata bella, giovane e perfetta; il femminile in questo caso è rappresentato come Google al femminile. Ovviamente Google al femminile è visto come una donna con tutte le parti del corpo, che contraddistinguono una donna da un uomo, bene in vista e belle marcate; la femminilità è vista sotto forma di seduzione, quindi come un'arma (anche qui, difficilmente immaginiamo una donna normale, una donna qualunque o anziana come simbolo del femminile e della femminilità, ma femminilità non è uguale a seduzione o sexy, questo è uno stereotipo inculcatoci); arriviamo infine al femminismo which is how many people think a woman angry and violent towards the man who gives him a kick in the balls and a woman with attitude from a man who makes the gesture of the umbrella.
Nothing could be more wrong.

If opposed to this example we try to insert images on Google the words: man, men, children and students. Among the first picture there will be many like this:

As you will see the man is always thought of and portrayed by many of us as an ordinary person. Not particularly beautiful, not particularly bad. In the two photos where there is a woman we see the female figure in the background compared to the male. In any case, we see quite normal people and not the aggravation of a body in pursuit of perfection impossible, of a purity is not human.

Look at what we see for the words: student and girl.

If we put the words into Google images: strong and weak. We will notice the recurring images. For the first word often see pictures of weeping women or otherwise defenseless, slumped in a corner as beings to be protected (in fact they call it the "weaker sex" or the "fair sex"). Curious since I have known many women who gave himself wholly to raise their children and sacrificing showing a strength that I have not seen in these women's husbands or companions who fled after being made pregnant.

For the second word often see muscle men or men with the air of hard, many cars because "strong" is the name of a car. I chose the photo of the car to see how it contrasts the car being a female name with "strong" that gives the male aspect of the car with two women to serve as decorative items to the whole. I find it very meaningful picture of the condition of a woman's life in our society.

Turning to the work. The work is an important thing (as we understand from these lean times), to raise the female figure in the work of trying to bring the same level as man has made women more independent and has led families not to put more children into the world as a time, just because it was always just the woman to take care of the children and the man having to work. This effect is trying to exploit a number of scholars to try to reduce the growth of world population by 2020 is estimated to reach 9 billion people in the world (with obvious problems of livelihood for the ecosystem). In fact, however, still the woman works in discriminatory conditions and is not seen in the same man in different fields. The work is also seen male:

At most women are seen as able to adapt because it has something less than that between the legs for many it is a rather more power. This demeaning and discriminatory vision of women leads many men and women to think superficially that women offer their bodies to make a career just because it is the shortest way. The woman is then seen as a being without dignity. The reality says that instead, as the woman is unable to have much choice to get in some laps working (so why not give it away but he often prefers or so ago, or dreams of a career), many women give up their ambitions as at stake is their dignity and their pride of human beings.

then look a little professional work. We think and write images on Google the words: lawyer, professor, doctor, secretary, home and career in man.

As you will see that we are all normal images associated with these work. It 's all a normal part of the home. This bad habit of thinking about home come un uomo vestito da donna, debole e schiavizzato dalla donna che seduta legge il giornale, a molti di noi (comprese donne forse) fa guardare con antipatia alla foto o all'imgine nella nostra testa. Non è sbagliato guardare con antipatia alla cosa, a mio avviso, dato che non trovo giusto neanche io che la donna stia seduta a far nulla mentre il marito sgobba, dovremmo però riflettere sul fatto che per molti anni è stato così per la donna e spesso anche per una donna che tornava dal lavoro stanca le era imposto anche correre ai fornelli per il marito affamato. Questo però non lo guardiamo con la stessa antipatia. Meditiamo.

La cosa interessante la vediamo sfilare davanti a noi when we turn the names of various jobs for women (photo of a curiosity on the first work in English, as in other languages, there is then no distinction neutral word such as "professor" is called "professor" and professor idem, our language does not allow it unfortunately but I hope that we will come to this with our heads and our culture when we are a people more mature and civil). Via the pictures (lawyer, teacher, doctor, secretary, housewife, and career woman) that I comment out for themselves:

Now, aside from the clear sexual reference that people can often see in a feminine word, imagine how often it should be noted in appearance, facial expression and behavior in a woman. While the man is always very neutral thought.

I hope you understand what I want to emphasize is that I seem to have noticed.

The difficulty in coming to some curtains for many people is due to a small mind, perhaps, but I think there is always pushing a bogus stereotype of the woman who is constantly stuck in my head.
That's when we think about cleaning the house or cleaning in general the image that comes to a head and (right), is unequivocal and it is a fact.

But the woman's body is used as an object to sell anything that is not a matter of minor effect on these stereotypes.

The publicity over the past two decades have gone so far in our country to break down any barrier of dignity and decency. If we think that there are children and teenagers who may see ads posted on walls or on television without the possibility of control, as well as giving an example of a disgusting and vulgar in danger of passing concepts like "the woman is an object", "the Women should be used "," the woman likes to be used, "she herself used to make money and become famous" and things like that. The young men and women of tomorrow take up as small spugne certi concetti e gli aumenti di stupri soprattutto di giovanissimi e gli aumenti di anoressie e suicidi di ragazze e ragazzine perchè non si piacciono o perchè non riescono a sfondare dovrebbe essere un dato per noi allarmante da spingerci a riflettere sul dove stiamo andando. Quando vediamo in giro pubblicità come quelle che seguono, mi dite come cazzo facciamo a dire a nostro figlio o a nostra figlia piccoli di non dire parolacce e di avere rispetto delle pesone!!!???



Una persona normale non può che avere la nausea lo so. Ma c'è dell'altro e purtoppo c'è di peggio.

Il peggio a mio avviso è che questi stereotipi sono entrati talmente nel dna della nostra società da far parte di noi. Moltissime ragazze e donne non rendendosi conto fanno parte del meccanismo e ragionano in sua funzione. Un pò come Matrix.

Se girate in internet (su Facebook ad esempio o per i vari blog di gente comune) vi accorgerete che a determinate parole o frasi o stati d'animo si associano delle immagini, faccio degli esempi:

LOVE

FREEDOM ', REBELLION, Alternativ,' FEEL WILD

passion, sex, Erotica, EROS

SEDUCTION

Take a moment to SE 'SAME

TENDERNESS

Sadness, melancholy, weeping, SOLITUDE

HAPPINESS ', JOY, SMILE

As if the photos were good and we express certain feelings more real, actually is just the opposite. We find it hard to see in a normal face of a woman's feelings and we want to tell them depicted with perfect faces that are nailed into the brain from movies and magazines as long as we are no longer able to accept a defect or a normal face and place it in a written or in a context without appearing messy, out of place. We are haunted by the perfection and the category which currently suffers from this is more than the female.

riuscamo not just imagine those same expressions of emotion in faces side by side and any normal woman like the following?

The world does not show alternative the female figure. On the one hand we sing the Pooh "Men only" with the men by their looks and words any substantial height and music ("There are single men thirst for adventure, because they have studied for decades as a priest or in prison, for mothers who have never weaned them, for women who have them turned over and lost, or just because they are different. "), are opposed to their Ring Jo and Sabrina Salerno singing their indignation among the smiles and boobs wind, because they want to point out that "there is more than the legs" with their "we women" (but actually the only thing that fans out there is more than the legs ass and tits ).

Female entertainers who are exalted as feminists and as bearers of women in entertainment and culture giving interviews like this after being on the cover of Playboy: http://www.leprotagoniste.org/una-femminista-nell-era-della-fiction

Or, after telling us for years that has made his career thanks to the talent and not for another and after having fought several times (in words) on the rights women, Alba Parietti tells us what for her feminism: http://veryinutilpeople.myblog.it/archive/2010/05/24/la-perla-del-giorno-alba-parietti.html

Or again, there are the so called news programs give us the rankings of the best Italian of the moment: http://www.drittoalcuore.it/default.asp/id_cat=141/Elisabetta-Canalis-Valentino-Rossi-foto- gossip-news.html

In short, women are running where you are running a scorched earth around them.
Many pets and icons are: Alessia Marcuzzi, Barbara D'Urso, Paola Perego, Monica Bellucci. In short, this is coming, nothing to do with talent.

While for men is a different matter. You can leverage the talent and so many other things but not necessarily have to be perfect and beautiful every second. A man is allowed to age well think for a while.

Hard times for women, far more than many of them think. The struggles that have been made but did much of the lethargy anesthetized conscience of Italians hit them too.

are not alone, fortunately, there are men who are with them and have had enough, there are women who have mobilized all along. The strength of the women, sooner or later take home more results.
I can only say my topic when I can and feel like giving him courage and with a character that has made history. One of the many women who today serve as a die ... to us men.